“I just want to say THANK YOU, THANK YOU for offering this course. You've been a big help to me and I know, the other ladies. This is serious stuff and you have a gifted way of making it understandable. I took so many notes and I know I will be referring to your handbook probably for the rest of my life! In fact, I have already utilized your advice in several major ways. I can only imagine how much work went into the handbook and the course. You are such a blessing to all of us. I am grateful to God for you. Thank you so much for everything you do. It's good to know I am not alone in this chapter of my life. I am more optimistic than ever.”

— Monica

"As I have begun this journey of healing from sexual betrayal, one of the mantras that has brought me much comfort is the need for a woman to feel Seen, Safe, and Heard. What this boundaries course has done is given me an opportunity to see myself, hear myself and identify what safety means to me. This idea of knowing myself well is so life giving and lays the groundwork to begin to set healthy boundaries with not only my spouse but with others. I am so grateful for making this investment in my own healing."

— LN

“I haven’t really been able to fully grasp limits and boundaries until now, and maybe it’s because of the constant brain fog and grieving. But your teaching and worksheets have helped so much. Talking through examples with other women was also very helpful because we all can relate, unfortunately.

You are a gifted teacher and speaker. You make me laugh and give me a glimmer of hope for my future. I was very impressed with your ability to cover a lot of ground without getting sidetracked. You are super organized and I knew you were respectful of my time. This course was very well done. Thank you so much for your obedience to God. He is using you in lovely ways.”

— Rhonda

"The Boundaries course for women gave me some practical tools to handle the ups and downs of recovery. Meeting weekly with other women who understand the pain of betrayal encouraged me that I am not alone and I am not crazy. These feelings are real; a normal response to an abnormal situation. The materials that Shelley provided are going to allow me to stay on top of situations in which I need to be able to process my emotions, understand what is happening inside of me, share my needs with my husband (and others) and then set boundaries to protect myself and keep us all in our own lanes. It is never going to be a perfect path…nothing messier ever in my life…but I am thankful for the course and the resources to help me map it out. Thank you RL for the work you are doing - for using your story to help others figure theirs out.”

— DC

I loved this class and I want to take it again! Boundaries, in general, has been a difficult concept for me to wrap my mind around.

Thank you, Shelley. I love your heart for women! I'm so so grateful that God did whatever universe rearranging He did so that I stumbled across RL last November. If we have a chance for true healing it is, I believe, hinging almost entirely on Redemptive Living.

— Reba

This course helped me crack the code on boundaries. It has been a life-changer! Even after reading the classic books on boundaries, I had viewed boundaries as a foreign language of sorts before Shelley’s Empowered Boundaries course. She teaches the building blocks necessary to form and set boundaries. Shelley shares tools that may seem intuitive to some but are often elusive to others. Her workbook is invaluable!

There are components needed, like secure attachment, knowing myself well, and community support (to name a few) that are needed to be able to form boundaries. Also, boundaries are dynamic. Understanding these key concepts were crucial in my aha moment in succeeding and not feeling like a failure. I finally feel like I can have my life back no matter what is going on around me.

— Erika