For women who need help
healing from betrayal.
coaching
Looking for group support?
Group Coaching
Group Coaching at RLW is a place to deeply connect with other women that GET it. Learning in the context of a group adds a profound layer of insight, perspective, and clarity to aid in the healing process post-betrayal.
Need individual support?
1:1 Coaching
1:1 coaching at RLW is a place to feel seen, known, and cared for, all the while helping you find your voice, discover your limits, and give you the necessary tools to heal from betrayal.
Meet Your Coach
All of our coaches were once clients themselves at Redemptive Living. They share a story of betrayal, just like you. They have done the {hard}, messy work to heal. Our coaches utilize the RL Model for betrayal healing where we specialize in helping you overcome obstacles, reroute when he is resistant and ultimately help you heal.
Beverly Bancroft - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Chrissie Ochocki - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Elizabeth Seymour - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Emma Berry - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Heiti DeLucchi - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Jennifer Kreitzer - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Kate Jones - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Maggie Cruise - 1:1 Coach
Mindi VandeKamp - 1:1 Coach + Group Facilitator
Nicole Shelibat - 1:1 Coach
Susan Finnefrock - Group Facilitator
1:1 Coaching
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We specialize in helping women heal from sexual betrayal. We work with women that are married, separated, divorced and also dating. In addition, the sexual integrity issues that our clients have been hurt by encompass pornography, masturbation, emotional affairs, physical affairs, lusting in public or in the mind, strip clubs, one night stands, etc.
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Our main objective is to create a safe place for you to share your grief, process the hurt and pain of disclosure / discovery, get unstuck, and determine what you need to move forward toward healing.
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These sessions are tailored to your individual goals and needs. A lot of the work we do with women centers on getting safe within your body and within your environment, identifying what you need, setting boundaries, working through triggers, self-care, healing from betrayal trauma and working through grief.
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Sessions are 55 minutes long and over the phone. Some of our coaches will do video sessions if that is your preference.
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$90 to $170 per session, depending on the coach
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How To Join
Group Coaching
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If you are a woman whom has been betrayed by your husband or significant other due to his sexual integrity issues (lust and fantasizing, pornography, emotional affairs, physical affairs, strip clubs, etc.), this group is for you. Whether you are 3 months in to the process or 6 years into the process, you are welcome!
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The focus will not be on our husbands but rather ourselves. Safe, honest, and vulnerable are three words that describe the group's energy. This will be a place where we will not judge each other but rather embrace the fact that we are all on different journeys with a common goal.
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Initially, everyone in the group will have an opportunity to share their story. Each woman will also set a couple of goals regarding things they want to work towards. Then, each time we meet, we will have an opportunity to share what has happened in our lives over the last couple of weeks. In addition, we will work through a curriculum that focuses on some of the core areas for healing: anger, forgiveness, trust building, triggers, insecurity, true intimacy and false intimacy, etc.
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We will meet every other week. Groups are limited to 5-6 people and will either meet in Denver at Redemptive Living or on Zoom (some groups meet via Zoom audio and video, and others via Zoom audio only). The groups are designed to work on intimacy in a safe environment, so we ask for a six-month commitment up front. Most groups, however, last anywhere from 18 to 24 months.
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$150 per month
Scholarships Available -
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Upcoming Groups to Choose From:
+Chrissie’s NEW group, meeting Tuesdays every other week, starting July 14th, 2026, 9:00-10:30am, MST - 3 spots OPEN.
+Mindi’s NEW group, meeting Tuesdays every other week, starting July 14th, 2026, 12:00-1:30pm, MST - 5 spots OPEN.
+Beverly’s NEW group, meeting Tuesdays every other week, starting August 11th, 2026, 2:30-4:00pm, MST - 6 spots OPEN.
Existing Groups:
Tuesdays every other week, starting June 16th, 2026, 4:45-6:15pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Kate Jones - FULL.
Tuesdays every other week, starting May 12th, 2026, 3-4:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Kate Jones - FULL.
Wednesdays every other week, starting May 27th, 2026, 9-10:30am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Tuesdays (every other week), April 14th, 2026, 12pm - 1:30pm MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Mindi VandeKamp - FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), March 4th, 2026, 7am-8:30am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Jennifer Kreitzer - FULL.
Tuesdays (every other week), March 3rd, 2026, 9am - 10:30am MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Mindi VandeKamp - FULL.
Thursdays (every other week), January 15th, 2026, 12:30-2pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Susan Finnefrock - FULL.
Thursdays (every other week), January 8th, 2026, 5-6:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Elizabeth Seymour (Please note, this is a separated/divorced group.) - FULL.
Tuesdays (every other week), December 2nd, 2025, 9am - 10:30am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Chrissie Ochocki - FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), October 1st, 2025, 11am - 12:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Thursdays (every other week), August 7th, 2025, 12:30-2pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Susan Finnefrock - FULL.
June 10th, 2025; Tuesday from 11am-12:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Shelley Martinkus - FULL.
Mondays (every other week), June 2, 2025, 6-7:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), May 21, 2025, 11-12:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Wednesdays, March 5, 2025, 2-3:30pm, MST (every other week), Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Kate Jones - FULL.
Thursdays, January 16, 2025 from 7-8:30pm, MST (every other week), Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Heiti DeLucchi -FULL.
Mondays (every other week), September 9, 2024,1-2:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Maggie Cruise -FULL.
Tuesdays (every other week), September 3, 2024, 4:45-6:15pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Kate Jones - FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), June 26, 2024, 9-10:30am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry -FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), May 8, 2024,8:30-10am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry -FULL.
Thursdays (every other week), April 11, 2024,12:30-2pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Susan Finnefrock - FULL.
Wednesdays (every other week), October 12, 20235-6:30pm, MST, (for first session, then Wed thereafter) Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Jen Kreitzer - FULL.
Monday, May 3, 2021; 6-7:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio and video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL
Wednesday, April 2015; every other week, Phone, 8:00-9:30pm, MST, facilitated by Shelley Martinkus – FULL.
last updated 04/17/2026