#46: Wondering is Work
In this episode, we talk about how hard it is for her as she is wondering: is he doing recovery work? Or not?
Some of the things women wonder about:
is he cheating on me today?
what if he is just checking the box?
is he really living with integrity when I am not around?
is he actually applying what we are investing time and money to learn?
what is he doing when he isn’t with me?
is he standing up for me and honoring me when he is with our children?
the list goes on… it’s a LOT to carry
Ladies - I encourage you to journal out: what is weighing on your mind as far as what you are wondering about when it comes to his recovery.
We then talk about: what can he do to help with this wondering. It comes down to transferring the burden. Jason gives four strategies men can use to transfer the burden onto him. I also mention some strategies she can use to free herself from this wondering.
We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us!
Jason mentions being a wife knower - see episode #41 for more on that.
Jason also mentions episode #39 on Rebuilding Trust: The Practicalities. You can hear that episode here.
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