It's so important for wives early on in this process to understand that oftentimes, the lying, is the last to go.

I almost decided to not write the book review - however, I feel like this book is an important one for any wife that finds themselves married to a husband with a sexual addiction or sexual integrity issue.

Pause here while I stand, clap my hands, and say thank you to Marsha and Barbara. Thank you.

I believed it was my fault and decided I needed to be sexier to win Jason back. Bad move on my part. It didn't work.

"Addicts need to remember that in the long run, it's the behaviors not the disclosure that led to the negative consequences."

In re-reading this book, I was also reminded that boundaries are healthy for all of us to have. Boundaries aren't just important in the after-math of sexual betrayal.

I wouldn't even trust God. If he had allowed this to happen to me, who knows what else he might allow. All I needed was me.