Just a quick note to let you know there is a new group starting December 2, 2015!

I almost decided to not write the book review - however, I feel like this book is an important one for any wife that finds themselves married to a husband with a sexual addiction or sexual integrity issue.

"Addicts need to remember that in the long run, it's the behaviors not the disclosure that led to the negative consequences."

In re-reading this book, I was also reminded that boundaries are healthy for all of us to have. Boundaries aren't just important in the after-math of sexual betrayal.

So here I am. Naming insecurity. Sitting in awareness. Working towards accepting all the different facets of me and overtime desiring to love all the different facets of me.

I wouldn't even trust God. If he had allowed this to happen to me, who knows what else he might allow. All I needed was me.

I know it takes a lot of courage to reach out and ask for help...getting support is one of the best things you can do for yourself.

It's also a time to reflect, practice gratitude and be thankful for the many blessings bestowed upon - us big or small.